By Monica O'Neil ; first appeared in The Advocate
“Leaders are a brick in the wall”, Mitch explained. “When you’re feeling angry, you can walk up to them, bash your head against them and it feels good”. He was having fun, being a little random and he has a point.
Leaders make good targets for frustration. Why? Frustration is interesting. Who gets it, who gives it, and why?
When I’m frustrated there are a number of people (also animals and objects) that might need to beware. It is easy to vent frustration on those nearby. Those at home- spouse, kids, dog, or the young man at the checkout, the older lady driving 3 km/hr under the speed limit in the lane I am stuck in.
Leaders also attract our venting of f ...